No one appreciates rudeness. However, when maneuvering a new situation, sometimes it’s difficult to identify rude behavior. If you lack familiarity with a situation, you could fall into certain pitfalls that elicit scorn. Many people don’t understand the rules of valet. That’s okay. We’ve created a short, simple guide to help you brush up on valet etiquette.

Before you even arrive at the valet, make sure of these 2 things.

First, grab small bills. In modern times, we often leave home without cash. Most places accept credit and debit cards, and now even phone tapping technology. However, service industry workers always prefer cash. It allows them to walk away with money at the end of a shift, bypassing the additional step of their employer doling it out. Furthermore, it allows you to demonstrate your appreciation in a directly visible way. Valet drivers appreciate the compliment of your tip. They also appreciate not having to break up larger bills, wasting valuable time in a tightly-run valet operation.

Second, clean out your car. You don’t need to detail it every time you go out. Though, ensuring any wrappers, excess crumbs, and personal effects are removed or stored shows you care about your own presentation. Similar to the home preparations you complete in advance of hosting company, ready your vehicle for a stranger’s use. Also, valet drivers don’t want to worry about the safety of your belongings. Keep your car tidy and inviting.

Valet etiquette on arrival dictates the attendant opens your door. Unless…

…you have a female passenger. In that case, attendants go for her door first, ensuring she exits gracefully before tending to the driver. In this case, feel free to exit of your own volition. It saves time and spares you the awkward waiting period as you watch your passenger exit before the attendant runs around to serve you. Sometimes, especially if you see several drivers manning the podium, they open all door simultaneously. However, you’ll likely catch their cue as you pull up. Watch for them as they approach. If they don’t step towards your door, go ahead and exit.

What do I do with my car keys at the valet?

The best answer is to leave them in the car. When you remove them, you shut off the engine, adding another step to the valet’s process. If you leave the car running, it allows them to hasten their procedure, keeping a steady traffic flow. Additionally, if you have a remote fob, leave that with the valet. They already have your key, no need to hold onto the clicker. It benefits them in the event you lose your ticket, or if the venue’s lot gets crowded. Using the beep produced from the lock function alerts them to its whereabouts, cutting time on its return. In that respect, it helps both of you.

Mind these valet etiquette tips to avoid any social awkwardness during your night out.